Dating a filipina

Dating a filipina

marrying a filipina

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written by my US fiance:

I am marrying a filipina.  I cannot say I am excited about it because I honestly feel married to her already.  My heart belongs to her and ’till death do we part.”  For me, the marriage started when I met her and fell into her loving gaze.  From the moment I saw her smile I was swept off my feet and terrified of falling for love again.  But I knew I had to take a chance.  Thats when I said “I DO“.. years ago.

 

I have heard stereotypes of filipino women from friends and co-workers.  They say filipinas only wanting money or to escape the Philippines.  My response to them is that I am aware that there are bad people in the Philippines.  I am aware that there are desperate people in bad situations, but you know there are bad, desperate people in bad situations EVERYWHERE and in EVERY country, even the US.. Especially the US.  I have not just heard of it I have seen it in many countries.  I chose to do more than generalize.  I am a realist.  People are individuals.  They are more than a race, gender, nationality or religion.

Other than that I cannot even put into words what her and I have.  Language can not express how great she is.  She is more than a woman and more than human.   She is my hero.  She is an inspiration who I am so lucky to talk to every day.  She is more than a friend and more than a lover.

Ultimately, I see marrying a filipina as a very positive thing.  But I will tell you this, Its not at all about her BEING filipina.  The fact that she is from the Philippines is not a factor for me.  Yes, I love the filipino culture.  I love pancit and Adobo and Chocolate Hills and YES, I think filipinas are attractive, loving and great, however my personal desire stretches way beyond race and nationality, ethnicity and creed.

I expect this woman, my love, my life, my wife, to put in 100% of herself into US because that is what I do.

Things will not always be pleasant, we will not always have sunny days.  Sometimes things will get rough and sometimes we will have bitter cold winter seasons, flash floods and tsunamis.  I expect my partner to weather these storms with me. I expect my partner to be back to back with me when the world comes at us with pitch forks and torches, I expect her the help me fight in the dimly lit alleyways by the shadowy dancing light.

Yes, I am marrying a filipina.  But I do not care what her race is.  Put forth the effort to build something with me and I will make you the queen of my life and the keeper my heart for as long it beats.

yours truly, Bruce.

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Looking for filipino women?  Check out the capital of the Philippines, Manila.

Manila is so huge that it actually consist of several cities.  With over 21 million people, its one of the most populated metropolitan areas in the world.  Its very crowded so manila women are not hard to find.

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Ms akira, a friend from fb

Generally, Manila women are also very nice and good lovers, like other filipinas. Most of them have lighter skin compared to Cebuanas. There are many Manila women that look like part Chinese because of decades of mixing with the Chinese people. Today, Chinese go to the Philippines, specifically Manila, for tourism, to invest in businesses and many have and migrated there. Most of big companies in the Philippines are also owned by Chinese Filipino citizens like Ayala malls, Airline Companies and MERALCO (Manila Electric Company).

manila women

 

What Manila Women Want

Manila women are often times professional, working women looking for a good man to help support them.  Many are not only open to foreigners but prefer them due to bad experiences with filipino guys.  White guys are especially favored in Manila.  They are usually looking for a long term relationship but you can certainly find other arrangements.

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courtesy of Missosology

You will find Manila women online looking for you.  Though online is the quickest and surest way to find Manila women, you must beware of scammers.  The Philippines is becoming legendary for the volume of romance & date scammers online.  Perhaps 80% of the women you will meet on filipina dating sites are either scammers or completely focused on money.  Manila probably has the majority of those scammers.

 

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How are filipino women?

Being a filipino

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Of course, just like any other group, we have some very bad people who would rather lie, cheat and steal from others than do their own work or get their own lover or get their own source of income.  You will find bad people in every group, color, race, religion and culture.  Poverty drives many filipinos to do whatever it takes to survive.  That includes scamming foreigners who are wealthy by the standards of the average filipino.

Family is very important to filipinos.  Once you get closer to filipinos you will find yourself becoming a part of our family.  Through good and bad times, family is family.

How are filipino women as daughters?

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Filipino women are obedient almost to fault.  Even if the parents tell the daughter to do something bad (such as prostitution or scam foreigners for money) she will do it.  Because of how filipino woman are trained, they often end up caring for two generations of their family.

How are filipino women as lovers?

Once a filipina gives her trust, she gives her heart entirely.  She is owned.  This is a good thing and a bad thing.  It can be a bad thing because her infatuation can make her dramatic and jealous.  But you must understand that you have become her life.  You can calm her fears by always providing assurance that you love her just as much as she loves you (or more).

The great thing about this level of dedication is that she will do everything within her power to serve and protect you.  She will put you on a pedestal. She will always ask her man if he has eaten breakfast, lunch or dinner (which is a sign of great caring and love in the Philippines).

how-are-filipino-women (5)But yes, it can be irritating at times especially if you are not affectionate but it is just part of their care for their man.  She will also care for your side of the family as well.  For some chosen few filipino women will also care about your past, your exs, (funny and crazy right? but dude its true).

She will tell all her family and friends about you met, how you fell in love and the times you were together be it good or bad.

 

If this is how your filipino woman is, then congratulations, she is totally and completely yours!

 

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I am an American guy and I have had some  adventures with filipino girls.  I cannot say it was all good… in fact, I had mostly bad experiences but the good times I had with filipino girls far outweigh the bad.  Let me explain.

Filipino Girls

First of all, the first filipino girls I met were actually American and typically filipino-Americans adapt so well in the U.S. that they usually don’t have any issues that you see with most other immigrants.  Some other Southeast Asian immigrants pretty much stick to themselves.  They are strict about interracial dating and their culture is a lot of times very different from Western culture so even if they are ok with mixing with other cultures it can be awkward.  There is also a language barrier sometimes.  With filipino girls, there are none of these challenges.  Philippines girls have a Western feel in that they are very open with emotions, 95% of filipino girls are Roman Catholic, most filipino girls speak very good english and even their pop culture is 50% Western music.

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Philippine girls “Filipino Girls” not “Philipino Girls”

Actual Philippine girls (directly from Philippines) that I met were wives of some friends and co-workers.  These filipino wives were absolutely amazing.  They would totally take care of their man like something I had never seen before.  They were supportive, loving, passionate and could usually cook very good.  I thought to myself, “I want a filipino girl!”

Women raised in the Philippines are different.  Its expected that they treat their man very, very good (the ones that are not scammers).  They also seem to be much more attached to their man.  I really cannot say the same for my experience in the U.S. and it does not seem to matter what race the American woman has been.  Anyway, it has been my personal experience that the more nice I am, the more of an asshole she is… its a mystery.  And if I act like a fucking douche bag, she is in love.  I don’t get it.  They try to stay with the douche bags but have to let the good guys go.  Crazy.  Why are most women like that?

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When I finally got around to finding filipino girls, filipinaheart was the first site I tried.  OMG!! there are soooooo many scammers on that site.  If you meet 10 filipino girls, at least 75% are looking for your money some are just straight out professional scammers.  The remain 25% are pretty good.

filipinas like white guys
young filipina with older white gentlemen

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What I learned on filipinaheart, filipino friend finder, filipinokisses and the other popular dating sites is that filipino girls love white men.  This is great if you happen to be white.  They obsess over have a white baby too.  Its actually pretty strange.  But if you look at their pop culture and artists, its normally the European-looking filipino girls that are the models, the singers, and actresses. You can be older than George Burns and look like Buddy Hackett.  As long as you are white, you can get a pretty decent filipina.  But don’t kid yourself, it has a lot to do with money and she will almost definitely have a young filipino guy she is caring for with your money.  Enjoy that sex!  Make it worth it!

Don’t feel down about it.  She can love you in time.  But if she is young, sometimes they have a lot to learn.

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Filipino girl

My filipina girlfriend

After wasting so much time with scammers on filipinacupid/filipinoheart I eventually found a filipina girlfriend.  She has been amazing.  She is actually Cebuana!  Very beautiful, GREAT in bed, but what I love about her is that she is supportive, loving, passionate, out-going, hardworking with a mind of business, amazing initiative and open about her feelings.  Honestly, I am not sure most filipino girls are like her.. or ANY woman.. I just got lucky.  I mean, I had a couple of other filipino girlfriends and most are loving, supportive and passionate but not many human beings I have met have all the qualities I mentioned, so like I said, I am very, very lucky.  And I am not just saying that so she will rape me after reading this.  Its really the truth.

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I met a filipino muslim girl in Kuwait.  She told me a lot about Islam and informed me that there are actually lots of practicing muslims in the Philippines.

Filipino christians make up over 80% of the Philippine population.  Mostly Catholics.  Most of the remaining people are filipino muslims.  About 5% of the total population are muslim.  So roughly 4 million with 50% women, so over 1 million are filipina muslims.

Islam in the Philippines is strongest in the south.  Mindanao ethnic groups have been practicing the faith since 14th century (before Catholicism).  Before the spread of Catholicism and before the Portuguese explorer Ferdinand Magellan arrived in the Philippines in 1521. In 1380, Sheik Makhdum Karim had already built the Sheik Karim al Makdum Mosque located in Tubig Indangan, Simunul, Tawi-Tawi.  Ferdinand Magellan was killed by Lapu Lapu, some filipino ethnic groups believe he was Muslim.  I choose to stick with the facts.. I don’t know for sure.

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filipino muslim Mosque

Muslims remain one of the biggest ethnic groups of the Philippines.  Although there are Filipino muslim terrorist in southern Mindanao such as Jemaah Islamiah who actually have links to Al qaeda, most muslims in the Philippines are moderate.  In fact, filipino muslim along with the muslims from all over the world are apart of one of biggest efforts to help the survivors of Typhoon Yolanda/Haiyan in Tacloban and surrounding Areas.  The Islamic Relief USA is in the eastern Philippines providing water, food and shelter.

Most of the Muslims are in the south. This includes south west Mindanao, southern Palawan, and Sulu Archipelago.  Some of the turmoil of the South of Mindanao is from a rebel group called Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF).

Filipina Muslims

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filipina muslim

Empowering Muslim Women, Philippines
Founded in 2011, we are a group of young Filipino Muslim women standing against discrimination and social exclusion in Manila. We conduct focus group discussions and personal interviews with young women because we believe it is important to tell the stories of discrimination experienced by young Muslim women in our country. We use our stories to propose policy recommendations to local government agencies. — youngfeministfund.org

Filipino Muslims remain on the outside of the mainstream of national life.  Even though Muslim Filipino women stay in the rear of the mosque for prayers, they are much more open in day to day life than most women in other Islamic societies.  Filipina muslims look for husbands outside of the country.  You can find these women on sites like this:

us.singlemuslim.com/about/philippines-muslim-women.html‎

lovehabibi.com/muslims/filipino-muslims

bestmuslim.com/bycountryview.php?gender=Female&country=Philippines

Some can be found at other dating sites such as filipinocupid.com and other filipino dating sites.

 

related story: http://efilipinowomen.com/muslim-saves-filipina-from-yolanda/

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Filipinas Worship White Guys

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Filipinas Worship White Guys

The Philippines is heaven for a white guy.  White is what every filipino aspires to be and to have. White = beautiful.  White = successful.  In the Philippines, Mary, Jesus and God are all white.  If the KKK and Nazi’s did not hate filipinos so much, they would love to visit the Philippines to be worshiped.

Filipinas equate white with beauty. They are obsessed with having white skin.  So a white man is like a trophy and a young, good looking white man is a God.  A half way decent looking white guy can go to the Philippines and have two best friends for sex, they could know that each other are having him and it would be tolerated.  I am completely serious.

A white baby is one of the most coveted things in the Philippines.  Women and men stand in awe and the site of a white baby.  Women will even get trick a white guy into giving up the sperm in a one night stand just to have a white baby.

In conclusion, filipinas do not just like white guys, they love them.  Not all of them of course.  Most prefer a hot, successful filipino man.  But if that filipino guy is considered “hot”, his skin is white.

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(may 2014 edit – clarifications added)

 

There are some (very few) filipinas that exclusively seek tall, dark and handsome men.

I will be honest here, there are not many pinay that are into dark skin (or any color other than white).  But the ones that can appreciate the beauty of any skin color are the best. They are diamonds in the rough.  They rare and precious, because they look beyond color, and they know that beauty is skin deep.

I will tell you my person experiences with filipinas and black men.  First of all, let me give you my perspective.  I am a black man.  I have been all over the world.  I respect everyone right to an opinion and a preference.  I personally do not give a damn about ethnicity or race.  I am more into what people do rather than what they appear to be.  I like asian girls but also love black, white, indian and whatever else..

Anyway, I was searching dating sites for asian girls seeking black men.  I thought maybe I would have many great opportunities with the filipino dating sites.  I thought because filipinos seem way cooler and more open than Japanese, korean and Chinese  cultures, that I would do better with filipinas since I am black.  I was VERY wrong.

First of all there are very few filipinas seeking black guys.  And MANY explicitly say on their profile “NO BLACKS”..   its so bad that I was expecting a “NO BLACKS or dogs” for the extra SLAP in the face.  Some profiles Or   would say ONLY WHITE guys.

I was pretty disappointed, because it was a LOT and I started to see that they really have a preference for White guys.  The Philippines (just like the rest of Southeast Asia) is not what I thought it was.. not at all.   White is really their standard for beauty in the Philippines.

90% of the filipinas trying to talk to me were not interested in having a black guy (as many find that disgusting, I later found out from more than one filipina).  They are mostly interested in my GREEN not my BLACK.

But I figured there MUST be some that are at least OK with black guys.  So I started looking for those that want ONLY blacks.    Some did not mind race and were very open about it and told me that they had black & white guys.  I only met one or two that exclusively date black guys.  As I said, the ones that were open to black or white, were special.  They are mature, open minded and not brainwashed by national standards of beauty.

I know their preference is a white guy, but I still think that filipinas are the best that I have met on average.  Because if they can find good, stable black man they will worship him and treat him like a king.  Furthermore, that black guy she choses will be so coveted among others filipinas, that pinays will often go out of their way to steal him from another (this happens a LOT).

Filipina girls that go for blacks believe completely in the sexual prowess of black men. It is apparently legendary in the Philippines that “black = HUGE”.  You and I know that this is not always the truth, but its fun to dream BIG.  Because of this stereotype, a black man is sought after by filipinas that don’t like black guys but go out of there way to have sex with them.  They don’t want to be seen with him, only want to be destroyed.  The fact that this is true makes it even funnier.

To find filipinas that exclusively date black guys, search on the dating sites.  You won’t find many but they are there.  If you are in the Philippines, go to the hip hop clubs and keep your eyes open. You can also find them in the malls.. or rather they will find you.

Beware of the ones that will seek you out and pretend they like black guys when all they want is green.  These girls will already have a filipino guy.  That filipino guy does not even have to have a job because she will use YOUR money to care for him!  I met several filipinas that do this.  All she wants with you is money and will only stomach the sight of you as long as she is paid.  Your sex is a bonus.

Just to give you and idea of how true this writing is.  I had my filipina fiance read this and she did not change one word or argue or feel offended because its the truth.  Knowing what I know now, prompts me to sometimes ask her, “why do you want to be with me?  Don’t you want a white guy?”

I mean we do love each other and share a special connection but everyone has a preference.

Its not all bad news.  You have to look beyond the Filipino social stigma against dark skin and find the real people.  I have been to the Philippines numerous times and have never been treated bad because I am black.  Just like anywhere else there are good people and bad people.  Everyone has a preference, but it does not mean you cannot get laid, find a great woman, change hearts and minds.

Beyond race, ethnicity, nationality, religion and political views there is someone who fits each of us.  We have to be ready to accept it.

My fiance is filipina and I am black.  We are very happy and truly blessed.  Our love of each other is way beyond the scope of this writing.  Its way beyond race.  Its truly something special.  If you keep looking you can find it.  First you have to believe it exists.

dave-chapelle-filipina  If you are a filipina and like black guys or a black guy and love filipino women don’t be discouraged by the mainstream.  All that matter is what YOU consider beautiful and who YOU choose as your partner.  Don’t let other people distract you.  In the US MANY black Americans choose a filipino wife.  Famous comedian Dave Chappelle is with a filipina.  Sean “p.diddy” Combs is with Cassie, a filipina.  Another famous rap mogul, Master P has half filipino kids (so does his brother).

 

Sean “p.diddy” Combs and pinay Cassie Ventura

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Cassie Ventura

(This article is written by my fiance)

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Looking for love in the Philippines?  Pinay love?  Now is the right time.  Literally millions of sexy pinay are looking outside the Philippines for opportunity and for love. Where do you find a lovely pinay? And  Why is there a steady mass exodus of pinay love being exported overseas?  Why are there so many making connections to the US, Canada, UK, Australia and other countries around the world.  The reasons are mostly social and economic, but that does not the make the love any less real.

With unemployment around 20%, poverty is a real problem.  Pork barrel corruption has made it hard to develop a larger Filipino middle class that could close the gap between the rich and poor people.  Being hit by superstorms, earthquakes and floods does not help.

So what does economic and social situations have to do with Pinay love?

Everything.  Since its so difficult to survive in the Philippines, filipinas are looking outside their country for opportunities.

OFWs is Estimated at 2.2 Million (Results from the 2012 Survey on Overseas Filipinos about 50% are women ages 15 to 24 year according to census.gov.ph.

Pinay are leaving the country, going online to find foreigners aid, or finding foreign spouses for a more stable life.

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pinay love

Where can you find Pinay Love?

Dating sites are the best place to find pinay love.  But be very careful because for every 10 filipinas you meet on these dating sites 4 are real lying scammers and 3 are looking for a hand out.  The most popular sites are: filipinacupid.com filipinaheart, cebuanas.com, dateinasia.com, cherryblossoms.com, filipinokisses.com.  Again, be careful who you trust and don’t fully trust anyone until you have known them for a year and met them.  NEVER believe anyone without video and DO NOT give money.  You must understand that poverty in the Philippines drives people to do crazy things.  If a woman can be with you without a sob story to get money or flat out asking, then she is real.  The good filipinas are hard to find, but if you can find her, she will be very, very worth it.. a REAL diamond in the rough.

 

Yuri Sincero
Yuri Sincero

My name is Yuri Sincero I am a part-time writer and full-time marketing student at Cebu Institute of Technology. My passion is cooking & singing, but have been getting into blogs and Search Engine Optimization. I am in Cebu city, but will be moving to the US soon. Follow me on Google+ and Facebook.

 

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philippines girls

Have you ever seen a part Spanish and part asian woman?  For an exotic and sexy looking woman look no further than Philippine’s girls!  Girls of the Philippines, lovingly called filipinas, come in all shades of skins from chocolate to vanilla.  Most filipinas are a light caramel latin flavor.  Although some of Philippines girls can be tall, most are very petite standing an average of 151.8 cm (4′ 11.8″), very short compared to other countries.

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philippines girls

Philippine Girls Clubs

If you want to sample Philippine girls the best place to look is Manila, Cebu and Angeles City where you will find 100s of Philippine girls clubs.  These clubs range from average gentlemen’s clubs where women are just dressed in sexy bikinis, spend time with you for an expensive drink to fully nude clubs where anything goes for the right amount of cash.  Cash is definitely kind in the Philippines.  The filipinas that work in these clubs range from 18-27 and petite.  Most of the ladies there just need a job and so you will notice they are not very

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Philippine girls club

good at dancing, flirting or even being sexy.  Unlike developed country girls clubs, gentlemen’s clubs and strip clubs where the ladies are usually very good and make lots and lots of money, Philippine girls clubs might have a few girls that are masters of shaking their little ass, flirting and getting in a man’s head.  Most of the filipinas in the clubs are young and seems to have no idea what they are doing and look like they would rather be working in Jollibee.

Philippines Girls, Good Brides

Although the Philippine’s girls have beauty that is second to none, it is nothing compared to their strong traditional upbringing.  Since they are usually brought up in a Catholic home, they are taught to care for their man from a young age, a tradition that is getting rare in western civilization.  For this reason many men desire a filipina wife.

Philippine’s girls are brought up in a harsh, often impoverished environments.  This has made them extremely strong and resourceful.  They are able to not only survive but thrive in other counties with other partners.  They are from a developing country so their expectation of comfort and convenience is much different from people of so-called “developed” countries.  They don’t complain as much and are usually humble.

Amazing Skills & Developed Talents

One of the most amazing things about Philippine’s girls is that they are polyglots.  They know at least two language and have an UNCANNY ability to quickly absorb new languages very quickly.  This might be because they are taught multiple languages in primary school.  They are taught tagalog, their local language if they are from province that does not speak tagalog and they are taught to speak fluent English.  Another skill that seems instinctive is singing.  MANY filipino girls know how to sing well because karaoke is favorite pastime of young & old people so they practice at a young age and just get better and better.  Dancing also seems very natural to the Philippine’s girls.  Unlike most places in asia, you won’t go to many clubs where people cannot dance.  EVERYONE has rhythm even if they cannot dance.

Without a doubt the greatest treasure in the Philippines is its girls.  Its no wonder men come from all over the world to experience a culture that created the most amazing gem of south east asia.

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filipino-kisses Men around the world seek filipino kisses. So they go online to find the diamond. Although, I can testify of how good filipino kisses are :), I would also warn foreign men seeking a filipina for a serious relationship to beware.

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filipinokisses

Seeking a relationship online from dating sites like filipino kisses, filipina heart or filipino bride sites is risky business.   There are MANY scammers on prowling the Internet for men with big hearts and loose wallets. I would say 70% are scammers or are in a desperate situation and just want money not necessarily a relationship.

There is a solid 25-30% that are seeking a real relationship first and desire a man who is financially and emotionally stable.  This women are not maliciously looking to deceive people or online beggars that want a hand out.  They are legitimate women that want a good man.  They prefer a foreign guy because of bad relationships in the Philippines and/or stability and they are willing to give a serious relationship a chance.   Filipino kisses is just the beginning if you prove yourself worthy to a good filipina!

beware scams on filipino kisses
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How can you find a REAL Filipino kiss?

Its a good question.  I found the love of my life online.  I know she is real from the sacrifice she continues to make to be with me.  How do I know she is real?  She told me the truth even when it did not paint her in a positive light.  She did not ever ask for money for any reason.  I met her and we managed to live together for sometime.  Trust did not come easy for us since we both went through bad relationships.  And it should not come easy for you either.  If she is the right one then you can only really know with time.

I went through 7 serious attempt with filipinas before I found the right one.  Of the 7, at least 2 were flat out scams, 2 were users that just needed money, and the other three just were not compatible.

 

What I learned is:

  • that you must give it time

  • observe behavior to find true intentions

  • if she ask for money, then its not real

  • You MUST meet her

  • Don’t talk without a webcam

  • What is her situation, put yourself in her shoes, what would you do

  • and the compatibility for a long lasting relationship

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2 strong for a filipino kiss

 

 

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