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Find a Wife using Dating Sites 4 keys to finding the right partner – Finding a Wife

4 keys to find a wife

We always get asked if we know anyone who is single or looking for a relationship. Men and women of all races and nationalities are constantly asking us.

The best way for us to help others find a good partner is to explain how we did it.

We used 4 Steps on dating sites:
*Before you start these steps you should know what you want and you should have enough confidence and love for yourself to not except anything less than what you want (that is Step 0).


Step 1. Sign up on multiple dating sites and create a profile on each one. Be honest on the profile.
Step 2. Be aggressively active on the dating sites. Send out message, search for good people, and message people back.
Step 3. Filter Everyone. Once you are getting a lot of replies and interaction, start filtering out people you know won’t work. Focus on the people that have a chance to be a good fit.
Step 4. Take your time. Once you have narrowed your choices down, take your time to really get to know your potential partner. Once you get the list down to one, get off the dating sites (suspend your accounts) and focus on that one person.

These steps are what both Yuri and I did to find each other and it really worked. This method used the “Law of Averages” the principle that supposes most future events are likely to balance any past deviation from a presumed average. This means, if you want to know how the future is most likely to turn out, look at the average way that it has gone. If you keep trying A LOT, and keep sorting through all your options, you average will usually turn out good the future. In short, SORT THROUGH A LOT OF PEOPLE AND YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHO IS BETTER THAN GOOD. (more on law of averages: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_pGQBdX55Y)

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Communication techniques (#Welationship 12)

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James asked us on facebook how to deal with his girl friend on serious issues that she doesn’t want to talk about. We have some experience with this. We had some serious communications issues when we first got together.

There would be something bothering one of us but we would not want to talk about it. Eventually, you have to talk about it or it can become like a festering wound. But you don’t want to keep picking at it.

We handled these issues by talking about it when times were good. In other words, don’t try to force a conversation on something you know will make a bigger argument when your partner is already upset. You may have better luck talking about it when they are in a great mood. When your both happy it may be a better time to have an actual conversation about how you felt.

This worked for us. Of course some things are so hard to talk about it will just take more time for the wounds to heal.

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Philippine Traditions Yuri birthday(VLOG50)

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Yuri explains Philippine traditions just before her birthday. They prepare everything before guests arrive. Yuri shows how to create buko pandan.

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Survival Mentality in the Philippines (VLOG39)(Yuri in the Philippines 11)

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#Yuribruce & #purpleshadow discuss the Survival Mentality in the Philippines. Living in a developing country can be very hard. As a result of living in very rough conditions some people use there heart and mind to overcome and some people use other people to get by.

When you are actually living in those conditions, it is really hard to do the right thing all the time. But those who do, tend to be remarkable people with greats hearts and creative minds up to any challenge.

#yuritv and #purpleshadow explain why. If you marry a filipina or anyone else from a developing country, you should know this.

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Long Distance Relationships Success Help

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“Absence diminishes small loves and increases great ones, as the wind blows out the candle and blows up the bonfire.”
– Francois de la Rouchefoucauld

I was in the US and traveling abroad while Yuri was in the Philippines.  We had a long distance relationship for a total of 2 years before we were eventually willing to violate international laws to be together.  We did not violate any international laws.. (I think).

We are together now but we could not have done it without first having a successful long distance relationship!  Now we want to help by sharing what we learned.  There are a lot of ingredients that go into a successful long distance relationship, but we have boiled it down to 5 things.

LOVE is not on this list.  Love is just a word without actions

Love is not enough. It is not one of the keys.

  1. Constant communication. Include them into your life.
  2. Learning to trust each other.
  3. Knowing yourself. To not be influenced about opinion.
  4. Setting pride aside. Put your partner first.
  5. Understanding your partner. seeing their perspective and respecting your partner’s opinion.

Do your best to be together.

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Is She a Filipina scammer if I met her family

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Our friend Maclobio asked us:
“can you please make a video about how to find out if my Filipina fiance is a scammer, what clues can you give me about how she would act if she is scamming me. will she introduce me to her family if she knows that she is scamming me?”

If your wife is taking you to meet her family then it is more than likely the real deal. Romance scammers are always trying to hide their true intent. If she is taking you to meet the family then she is actually wanting to make sure her family is ok with you.

The relationship is about to go to the next level if you allow it. One thing we would have you watch out for is families that are aggressive about asking for money. In these cases you should talk to your partner about what is acceptable.

Not all Filipino relatives we do this kind of thing, but we just want you to know it does happen. Communication is important.

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What are the signs of a romance scammer ?

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One of our subscribers told us his situation asking for our advice on Youtube. The situation he described sent up a red flag to both of us. It sounded a lot like a romance scammer. One of the main signs of a romance scammer is that they take your heart and they take a LOT of money from you. They say all the thing you want to hear and take lots and lots of money.

Be careful.

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I Got Scammed on Dating Sites

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by: Bruce Brown

If you have ever been scammed on a dating site then you are not alone.  Although I am happily married now for 2 years to my best friend and soul mate who I met on a dating site, I did not always have such great luck.  Back in 2009, I was a single father with two kids on dating sites looking for love and companionship.

I was scammed multiple times and I lost a lot of money in those romance scams.  Girls who pretend to be with you but turn out to be fake.  I was so good and supportive to these scammers that they would usually admit to me that it was a scam, but they were ready to make it real.  Of course, after realizing I had been lied to me, I was reluctant to talk to them anymore let alone be a boyfriend.

Looking back I can see that I made very, very bad decisions because I felt alone and I was trying to rush to find something new.  It is better to just take your time.  Take time to really get to know each person you talk to.  DO NOT send money.  If someone is asking for money on a dating site, you should be suspicious.  This should be obvious, but if your emotions are involved your judgement gets cloudy.

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Relationship BEFORE fiance and marriage

before you get engaged

Most of the couples we talk to are doing ok, but some are really not doing well. We noticed that most of the unsuccessful relationships have one thing in common. They did not date very long. And some did not even know each other long.

That is not to say that a marriage or engagement cannot work if the couple did not know each other long, its just that most people seem to have a really hard time adjusting when they just jump into a marriage.

 

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Long Distance Relationships and Breaking Up

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Answering Question: Veronica Adipo “Hey yuri hope your ok. I have question am currently unemployed and in my country alot people dnt have address will it affect my k1visa? I ony my apartment number building number and the gate number.”

 

We dated for 2 solid years before we decided to get engaged. We met in 2011, started a relationship in 2012 and got married at the end of 2014. In that first 2 year period, we actually broke up more than a few times. We live with each other for a short period of time and had some growing pains as we adjusted to each other.

Our relationship started very shaky with each of us unsure about each other and scared to get into another failed relationship. But NOW we are a team. We support each other, we create and accomplish our dreams together. We share our dreams and when we struggle we do it together.

We still have arguments, disagreements and bad days just like any team you cannot win all the time. But we realize that you only fail if you quit. Our main secret is that we are very open with communication. That is really the key.

 

 

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