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When You Marry a Filipina Jealousy YOUR COMMENTS

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By LuToiya

Topic:  Why are Filipinas so Jealous?  Check out Lutoiya’s Youtube channel (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFx7X7KfCc_QuzTFRwQjiCA); Instagram: mcnastylifestyle
Apologies in advance for the wall of text below: Biologically speaking, I am 1/2 Filipina and I grew up around a lot of Filipinas in Guam. I feel qualified to speak on this subject even though i’m not “culturally” Filipina. (I wasn’t raised in the Philippines and anyone who has spent 5 minutes with me will tell you that there’s almost nothing “conservative” or “Traditional” about me or my husband.) I feel like I can offer perspective on this from a female standpoint.
Despite what some people think. Filipinas are not more or less jealous than any other group of women. Thai women, Chamorro women, American Women, European women and even men can be just as jealous, for example, can be just as jealous as women from the Philippines if not more so under similar circumstances. Jealousy (in my humble opinion) stems from insecurity. Sometimes the more you care about something or someone the more fear of loss you have. The greater the perceived threat, the more jealousy rears its’ head. The more secure the relationship is, the higher the threshold to trigger the instinctive jealousy reflex.
When my husband and I first entered a serious committed relationship, we had our own issues with jealousy. The prettier the girl or the more handsome the guy is… or the more appealing the outside element is, the more of a threat they are perceived to be. The greater the perceived threat the more potential there is for insecurity inside the relationship. Insecurity is the seed of almost all jealousy in a relationship. Did I choke a bitch and punch her in the face at a Bone Thugs in Harmony concert for flirting with my man? You’re DAMN RIGHT I did… but that was before my husband and I’s relationship evolved to a place where we feel secure enough in our relationship to let these bitches draw breath except for in cases of extreme transgression, hehe. 😉
Solution time: Advice for guys, examine yourself. Are you giving your woman a REASON to be jealous? Are you playing games with her emotions? Are you out all night? Have you really torn up your “player card” or is it still in your back pocket? Are you contacting your exes? Are you staying out all night and not answering your phone or responding to text messages? Are you doing everything you can to make your woman feel secure in the relationship? Does she have a reason not to trust you? Be honest with yourself. The antidote for the poison of jealousy is security. If she is rational, the more secure a woman feels in the relationship and the less doubt she has about your intentions, the less jealousy she will feel. If your woman is rational and if you go out of your way in the beginning to show her that you love her and that your not out there trying to make her look stupid, the walls will start to come down over time and jealousy should be less and less of an issue as time progresses in the relationship (barring any incidents of infidelity, perceived or otherwise.)
Advice for girls: Step 1 Choose well. Trust your gut instinct but give the guy the benefit of the doubt if you know he’s a good guy. If he’s not a good guy, then why the hell are you with him in the first place!? (please refer to step 1)
Examine YOUR attitude FIRST before you “freak out” on your partner. Whenever you feel the jealousy bubbling up from your stomach it’s time to evaluate your feelings RATIONALLY. Did HE give you a REASON through his ACTION to cause you to feel this way? Can you point to any action that he has taken (either directly or indirectly) to provoke insecurity in your relationship? Are you mad at this guy for no reason? Does HE really deserve a night of tampo just because some random girl showed up at the party looking fierce in a sexy red dress? The answer is probably “no”.
Men don’t possess the same emotional palate that we women do and sometimes things fly right over their head. If you can’t articulate the reasoning behind the negative attitude you are showing him in a rational way and point to something tangible that he actually DID to cause you to feel jealous emotions then maybe it IS just – as Bruce alluded to in the video – just your “pain body” talking. Discuss with your man. Be open and honest with your feelings and if he IS a good guy then for god’s sake cut the poor man some slack. 🙂
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Money Transfer in the Philippines (VLOG52) (Yuri in the Philippines 22)

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Yuri was in the mall and had trouble using an ATM. You have to use ATMs with a Visa/Mastercard, Star or Cirrus logo. In some countries these kinds of ATMs are not as available. If you don’t have the appropriate ATM, you can use money transfer services like Xoom, Western Union, money gram, and others to send the money to yourself.

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Philippine Traditions Yuri birthday(VLOG50)

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Yuri explains Philippine traditions just before her birthday. They prepare everything before guests arrive. Yuri shows how to create buko pandan.

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Message to Yuri #DU30 #Hillary #Trump the last of human freedoms (VLOG35)

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“The Last of the human freedoms: to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Dr. Viktor Frankl, Holocaust Survivor

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Hello Yuri,

We miss you and we are so glad you are coming home soon :D!

This is a response to your video on DU30. It has been a bit of a controversial topic. So far it has the most comments of any other videos we have created. People are really on both sides about the president.

Today is election day in America. People are even more divided here on who should be the president and which direction the country should go. There is this mentality of if you are not for us you are against us. People are so emotional that it’s hard to have an intelligent conversations about policy, social issues or facts without resorting to personally attacks. It really makes the US look bad.

What I miss about being in the military is that even if you were republican or democrat, black or white, rich or poor, liberal or conservative and no matter who you voted for you were an American first you would still get things done no matter what.

I was in the military during two administrations (Clinton and Bush) liberal and conservative. In both cases, I went to war zones. When were there, we weren’t worried about party affiliation, race or gender. We fought for our families back home and the person next to us to survive. I do not miss war, but I do miss that unity and comradery in the military. Some of those guys are like brothers to me and none of us has the same political view.

What I think about DU30, Trump and Clinton their policies, laws regulation, nation and government of the world is that regardless of what they say and do next year and in the years to come WE will stay united and do WHATever it takes to remain free to pursue life, liberty and happiness. If we cannot do that in America or the Philippines because I am an American and you are an immigrant in the US, then we will find another place where we can.

If we are not wanted in the US or Philippines because of race, religion or immigration status, we will not live there, or start business or buy land there. We will leave on good terms.

I have done well in every climate. In good and bad economic times, whether i agreed with the US government or even my own countrymen, I have always found a way to live my life how i want no matter who is president. Because I believe that if you want freedom, you have to take it. No ONE can give you freedom. Your soul is free even if they lock up your body. I am really optimistic because I believe there is always a way (legal or illegal) to live how you want if you want it bad enough.

With that being said. I wish President DU30 and the filipino people the best. And if it is the will of the filipino people, you are right American should leave and not be anywhere they are not wanted. Its a waste of time and money for both countries.

And to the next US president, congratulations. I hope that you and your administration can make the right decisions for American citizens.

As for you and I, we cannot expect any government, president or politicians to do anything for us. You and I have to do for you and I. If they are inline with what we are doing in our life then great, if they start to interfere with what we believe, or choices in life or if they want us gone, no problem. There are 100s of countries that are open to hard working people like us.

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Fixing a Tablet in the Philippines x Pay bills with LBC(VLOG40)(Yuri in the Philippines 12)

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#yuri & #purpleshadow go to the mall to get the Galaxy Tab fixed and to pay bills. The Galaxy Tab is a what Yuri brought from the US for her niece. It has some issue where it was not charging. She gets it fixed for 600PHP (12USD) in the mall. Purpleshadow has to go to LBC to pay the electric bill.

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Survival Mentality in the Philippines (VLOG39)(Yuri in the Philippines 11)

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#Yuribruce & #purpleshadow discuss the Survival Mentality in the Philippines. Living in a developing country can be very hard. As a result of living in very rough conditions some people use there heart and mind to overcome and some people use other people to get by.

When you are actually living in those conditions, it is really hard to do the right thing all the time. But those who do, tend to be remarkable people with greats hearts and creative minds up to any challenge.

#yuritv and #purpleshadow explain why. If you marry a filipina or anyone else from a developing country, you should know this.

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Why Filipinos Are So Happy (VLOG31) (Yuri in the Philippines 5)

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Yuri has lived in a developing country (Philippines) and a developed country (America).  She has noticed that people in richer countries can afford to take a lot of their opportunities for granted.  While people in developing countries have to worry about survival.  When survival is at stake, you realize each day you are alive is a blessing.

 

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Can You Cry in Your Sleep (VLOG021) (yuri’s life story in ph)

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Yuri has a bad dream. She actually cried in her sleep. Bruce woke her up to see if she was ok. The next day she remembered the dream. This video is about that dream.

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St Lukes Medical Check (immigration physical exam) Registration

Paano mag register sa St lukes at ano ang mga dapat mong tandaan ?

  1. St lukes is first come first serve.
  2. Create one application for each member of your family. Kung may anak gumawa ka ng separate form.
  3. Dalhin mo ang iyong NVC case letter or i print out ang case number galing sa USCIS.gov case status na nakalagay na ” case is ready “
  4. Magpaschedule ka muna ng interview appointment for embassy interview bago ka magpa medical. Ang medical exam valid yan for 6 months.  Kung ano ang date ng medical mo, yun din ang magiging expiration ng iyong US visa. So kunwari, inuna mo ang iyong medical tapos may kulang ang papeles mo sa interview, instead na 6 months ang nakalagay sa iyong US visa, iilang buwan nalang ang matitira. May nakilala ako dati while nasa CFo seminar, dalawang buwan nalang ang nakalagay sa kanyang passport nung natanggap nya ang visa dahil sa na RFE sya sa interview at inabot pa ng dalawang buwan bago nya na submit ang birth certificate nya ang ibang papeles na hiningi ng US embassy.
  5. I prepare mo lahat ng requirements mo. Gaya ng passport, nvc letter, schedule ng interview appointment mo. Visa photos rin.
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