I am an American guy and I have had some adventures with filipino girls. I cannot say it was all good… in fact, I had mostly bad experiences but the good times I had with filipino girls far outweigh the bad. Let me explain.
First of all, the first filipino girls I met were actually American and typically filipino-Americans adapt so well in the U.S. that they usually don’t have any issues that you see with most other immigrants. Some other Southeast Asian immigrants pretty much stick to themselves. They are strict about interracial dating and their culture is a lot of times very different from Western culture so even if they are ok with mixing with other cultures it can be awkward. There is also a language barrier sometimes. With filipino girls, there are none of these challenges. Philippines girls have a Western feel in that they are very open with emotions, 95% of filipino girls are Roman Catholic, most filipino girls speak very good english and even their pop culture is 50% Western music.
Philippine girls “Filipino Girls” not “Philipino Girls”
Actual Philippine girls (directly from Philippines) that I met were wives of some friends and co-workers. These filipino wives were absolutely amazing. They would totally take care of their man like something I had never seen before. They were supportive, loving, passionate and could usually cook very good. I thought to myself, “I want a filipino girl!”
Women raised in the Philippines are different. Its expected that they treat their man very, very good (the ones that are not scammers). They also seem to be much more attached to their man. I really cannot say the same for my experience in the U.S. and it does not seem to matter what race the American woman has been. Anyway, it has been my personal experience that the more nice I am, the more of an asshole she is… its a mystery. And if I act like a fucking douche bag, she is in love. I don’t get it. They try to stay with the douche bags but have to let the good guys go. Crazy. Why are most women like that?
When I finally got around to finding filipino girls, filipinaheart was the first site I tried. OMG!! there are soooooo many scammers on that site. If you meet 10 filipino girls, at least 75% are looking for your money some are just straight out professional scammers. The remain 25% are pretty good.
What I learned on filipinaheart, filipino friend finder, filipinokisses and the other popular dating sites is that filipino girls love white men. This is great if you happen to be white. They obsess over have a white baby too. Its actually pretty strange. But if you look at their pop culture and artists, its normally the European-looking filipino girls that are the models, the singers, and actresses. You can be older than George Burns and look like Buddy Hackett. As long as you are white, you can get a pretty decent filipina. But don’t kid yourself, it has a lot to do with money and she will almost definitely have a young filipino guy she is caring for with your money. Enjoy that sex! Make it worth it!
Don’t feel down about it. She can love you in time. But if she is young, sometimes they have a lot to learn.
My filipina girlfriend
After wasting so much time with scammers on filipinacupid/filipinoheart I eventually found a filipina girlfriend. She has been amazing. She is actually Cebuana! Very beautiful, GREAT in bed, but what I love about her is that she is supportive, loving, passionate, out-going, hardworking with a mind of business, amazing initiative and open about her feelings. Honestly, I am not sure most filipino girls are like her.. or ANY woman.. I just got lucky. I mean, I had a couple of other filipino girlfriends and most are loving, supportive and passionate but not many human beings I have met have all the qualities I mentioned, so like I said, I am very, very lucky. And I am not just saying that so she will rape me after reading this. Its really the truth.