Submissive Women Submissive Wife

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Submissive Women Submissive Wife

Submissive Women Submissive Wife

But the truth is, a submissive wife is a secret desire left unspoken.  How else do you explain the popularity of media like Fifty Shades of Grey.  Fifty Shades of Grey started as a novel by Erika Leonard, a UK author.  It is about a submissive woman, bondage and has topped best-seller lists around the world (including US and UK).  Its also a movie. Erika’s fantasy of submission/domination and bondage is so popular she wrote a series about it that made $95 million on the books alone and $5 million on the movie (the first movie).

Submit yourselves one to another.. — Ephesians 5:21

My filipina wife is SUPER submissive.  I did not ask for her to be this way.  And its actually a little extreme sometimes.  She asks permission to sleep, permission to go out of the house, and sometimes even permission to eat!  I do not beat her and I did nothing to coerce her into this kind of submissive behavior.  She is just very submissive woman to me.  The very thought of her submissive behavior makes me hard.. why does it turn me on so much?

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Submissive Asian Myth

I love submissive women.  And filipino women are very submissive.  Not all, of course, but many particularly when they really love someone.  They express the love through complete submission.  There is a stereotype that Asian women are submissive.   From my interacts and relationships with Japanese, Korean and Chinese, I would say that they are absolutely NOT submissive.  That is a HUGE lie.  In general, many asian women I have met  don’t like to be considered submissive especially if they are from Europe, America, Australia or Canada.  But filipinas are definitely submissive.  When I tell my filipina wife she is submissive, she says, “Yes, daddy, I am.”

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I think there is a twisted misconception about men wanting

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a submissive woman as a servant or slave.  I mean, of course, some do, but for me and most others that is not the case.

I have a submissive wife.  She goes out of her way to put me first in everything.  She spends time in her day to make me feel better.  She makes her mission in life to support me as I support us.  I look forward to being with her as much as possible because my life is better when she is near.  Because of all that she has become for me, I don’t just love her, I worship this woman.  At work, I am an employee, a number.  But in my home, she makes me feel like a king.  So I want to make her feel as good as she makes me feel.  I noticed that its a love that most people cannot understand or relate so I don’t talk about it much since they will think we are crazy.  They might think I am abusive… but I am only abusive in bed because she begs me to be.  She likes to get spanked.. HARD.  I guess we really are and out of the ordinary because I don’t meet many like us.

True Love is Submission

I think if a woman loves you enough she will show that side of her.  In fact, anyone, man or woman regardless of sexual orientation, when you really love someone, you are willing to submit to them from time to time.

I think I love submissiveness because I want a woman that is will to give me back all that I put into a relationship.  I want a return on the investment of time, love and energy I put in without holding back.  I submit to our relationship and I want a woman who can do the same.  A woman that is submissive to our love, submissive to us.  That is what filipino women do.  Every good man deserves a submissive wife to submit his life, work and livelihood too.

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We don’t really have a dominant and submissive relationship.  We are life partners and serve each other in all needs, wants and desires.  But it does make me want to take what is mine on the spot when she acts submissive.

The behavior of submissive women is not what you think.  For example, they are actually only submissive in specific situations.  Like with my very submissive wife, she is only submissive to ME.  With other people she acts like one of the most dominant women I have ever seen.  I have to tell her to dial it down a bit sometimes.  But with me, the more I dominate her the wetter she gets.  Some submissive women are ONLY submissive in bed NOT out of bed, I don’t really consider these women submissive.  Only sexually, submissive.

Submissive women are fun in bed.  My submissive wife loves to be tight up, roughed up and savaged.  It drives her crazy and she cannot get enough at all.  A submissive woman will try just about anything you want.

Some people really don’t understand submissive women:

ProvidentialParlance: “Why do submissive women like to be submissive? What do they gain from it?”


During s3x I understand it, sometimes it’s fun to be the “toy” of a partner you love and trust.  In everyday life I admit I don’t understand. I like being a competent adult, there is no one’s judgment I trust more than my own to the extent that I would turn over all of the decision-making in our lives, even my most personal choices. It’s like wanting to be a child, and I don’t get it.


But women are submissive for their own reasons:


I choose freely to be submissive to my partner as it makes me happy. Not everyone is the same. I grew up in a really strict family and after moving out after college, I felt something was missing. A few years later when I chose my life partner, we discussed this and I decided that I wanted to be submissive. I have a demanding job that is stressful and I am responsible for many things, so it is simply wonderful to know that once I am away from work everything will be taken care of for me and I wouldn’t trade this for the world.


What I personally gain from subbing: for a change letting things go, not carrying the burdon of responsibility all the time, enjoying myself and my body, intimacy with someone and doing something I like: serving and making people happy.


They get wet from being submissive and they don’t have to know why. They just do.

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I asked my filipina wife why filipinas submit completely to there man she said from a young age girls are taught that.  She said its a woman’s job to support her husband and make their house a home.  Since the philippines is 90% Roman Catholic, it is expected that women will serve her husband as part of marriage vows.  And its not considered a bad thing its the only thing.


How to be Submissive

Submissive training is done not only done among filipino girls but among many other cultures around the world.  It is frowned upon by progressives in so called developed countries.  However, submissiveness is about have human nature.  Its part of our sexuality and our behavior.  So how does willing partner train to be submissive?  Here are some points on how to be submissive:

1) Put your partners needs before your own.

2) In Bed, be the TOY.

3 Comments on Submissive Women Submissive Wife

  1. Christian Counts
    February 22, 2014 at 8:31 pm (2 months ago)

    I really like what i read, perhaps i dont see it the same way on all things..


  2. Christian Counts
    March 5, 2014 at 11:23 am (2 months ago)

    I love your training tips

    • admin
      March 11, 2014 at 12:25 pm (1 month ago)

      thank you christian. will keep on writing more articles later.


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